Friday, March 31, 2006
Personal Responsibility for Acheivement
-- Les Brown
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Adversity is good for you!
A dose of adversity is often as needful as a dose of medicine.
-- American proverb
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Welcome
Welcome to the Motivational Speaker Blog. I will be sharing
motivational stories, quotes and thoughts here as I have time. Please
let me know what you think and what inspires and motivates you.
I look forward to seeing you again.
Rob Oliver
Your Motivational Speaker
The Gold Stars
I hope you enjoy this cute story. I've been trying to use positive
reinforcement with our 3 year old triplets. Whenever they do something
exceptional, I reward them with a "gold star". They love the idea and
now, every time they obey, they ask if they will get a gold star.
A few weeks ago, our little boy was being difficult so I told him that
he would have to listen or he would lose a gold star. Unfortunately for
him, he did not listen. I took him with me to take down his star and he
was crushed. Needless to say, my heart was breaking, but I had to stick
to my word. To add to my difficulty, his 2 sisters now joined him,
begging me not to take his "gold star". Now I was really backed into a
corner. As I reached for the star, he melted off my lap and on to the
floor, crying.
The 2 girls ran off into the nursery, grabbing their blankets, binkies
and play cell phone. About 30 seconds after they left, Chloe came
running back to me, absolutely sobbing. I asked her what was wrong.
"Daddy, I miss you when you're in jail," she said. I asked her what she
was talking about.
She explained through her tears, "Lauren call the police on her phone
and they put you in jail because you take Josh's "gold star"."
Have a great day,
Rob Oliver
Reach for the sky!
till we are called to rise;
and then, if we are true to plan,
our statures touch the sky.
-- Emily Dickinson